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I love it ! Very creative ! That's actually really...

2009-12-10T06:36:40.385-05:00

I l o v e i t ! V e r y c r e a t i v e ! T h a t 's a c t u a l l y r e a l l y c o o l T h a n ks.

Rest assured that time wounds all heels. Illegiti...

2009-05-06T13:21:59.331-04:00

Rest assured that time wounds all heels.

Illegitimati non carborundum.

When someone enters you "inner sanctum" they get w...

2009-04-29T12:40:27.928-04:00

When someone enters you "inner sanctum" they get what they get.
It is your place,your time,and your words. They could be considered an uninvited visitor, if they don't like what they read, they can just leave and not come back. Kinda like the on/off button for that retched TV. You control your whole world by pushing that one button.

We have all produced "e-mail faux pas"
I sent something to my sister one day when I was upset. I accidentally cc my Dad. OMG, Did I owe everybody an explanation. My Dad, being the wonderful person he is, said it was just between him and me, not to worry about it. I think we both learned from it.

Forget the "W"itch. She never has been worth the trouble, as long as you a square with the important people you are good.

Sounds like someone who is not very self aware (or...

2009-04-28T21:02:55.573-04:00

Sounds like someone who is not very self aware (or aware) is putting all their bad feelings on you! Don;t worry too much about it.
You are sincere and don;t intend ill. if that person doesn;t know that, they don;t know you. It's all about them. How boring.YOU are anything but and please keep posting!
Aloha

Okay ... I dont know who was offended or why but I...

2009-04-28T12:16:27.843-04:00

Okay ... I dont know who was offended or why but I do know YOU and this is YOUR blog... its your right to say what you want, when you want, HOW you want ...

And I also know you well enough to know you didnt intend that to hurt whoever.. hell if you had intended to hurt them, I think you'd have used a bigger badder meaner word than 'beotches'

So .. if this person reads this comment may I say to them BITE ME, Beotch

That sucks. Hmm, I so eloquent tonight. Back to m...

2009-04-28T05:46:29.238-04:00

That sucks. Hmm, I so eloquent tonight.
Back to my favourite topic of myself, I am keeping some of my real opinions about China and stuff under wraps until I leave (don't want to do anything that could jeapordize my job) and it can be so frustrating not be able to write about what you want to.
Chin up!

So sorry gorgeous. I agree with all the above. T...

2009-04-27T18:54:28.393-04:00

So sorry gorgeous. I agree with all the above. This is your space. You haven't asked anyone to read it, and you shouldn't have to apologise for its contents.

Taking the post down should be more than enough to mollify them, and if not, I'd write another about forgiveness and/or their right NOT to read.

I've offended a loved one by mistake once and I was mortified so you need to do what's right for you too, but I just don't want you to feel forced or controlled here. This blog is your baby. Hugs.

that really sucks but I hope you continue to use t...

2009-04-27T16:35:07.686-04:00

that really sucks but I hope you continue to use this space as a place to be yourself and vent/discuss anything you need to.

I constantly worry that my blog will be discovered...

2009-04-27T15:13:35.875-04:00

I constantly worry that my blog will be discovered. It does taint what I write sometimes. But for someone to just attack you only shows THEIR true colors. We're all adults here (or should be).

Been there, done that, bought the T-shirt. I decid...

2009-04-27T11:50:26.592-04:00

Been there, done that, bought the T-shirt. I decided to leave my blog up because the people that were crying and whining about it WOULD NOT be allowed to dictate how I felt, or what I said about how I felt. I did, however, remove the post that hurt their widdle feelies, despite the fact that no one had any idea who I was talking about (except the people I was talking about). And then, not too long ago, my eldest brother found my blog and got HIS feelings hurt about what I'd written about HIM. That post I left up, because my brother and I don't talk anymore.
In the final analysis, this IS your space. These ARE your feelings. Anyone trying to take that away from you is the selfish one.

Aunt Tuna knows I blog. I believe she has now chos...

2009-04-27T11:15:47.692-04:00

Aunt Tuna knows I blog. I believe she has now chosen not to read it....
this is YOUR space. Tell the others to bite you.

Oh man, that really sucks. I've had the same kind ...

2009-04-27T10:16:42.744-04:00

Oh man, that really sucks. I've had the same kind of thing happen, and had the same reaction you did, but was ultimately happier to just keep on doing what I wanted. I'm sorry that person chose to do the very thing they were accusing you of, using hateful angry words, to tell you how they felt. You just keep doing what you're doing, fuck the naysayers.

I must clarify - I was NOT bashing anyone in my po...

2009-04-27T09:39:27.513-04:00

I must clarify - I was NOT bashing anyone in my post (that has been removed)... I used a term that was taken offensively.. that term was Beotches.

It was removed because someone asked me nicely to do so. NOT the same someone who attacked me.

Preach on Sybil! Seriously, it's YOUR blog. If som...

2009-04-27T09:25:42.985-04:00

Preach on Sybil!
Seriously, it's YOUR blog. If someone so judgmental and spiteful finds it offensive s/he he can sod off and create a blog to bash whoever s/he wants on it.

Write what you want, that's the point of blogging. I understand where you're coming from (anytime I get depressed and mention it on my blog my future MIL and SIL call my future husband and drama ensues. I hate it, but at the same time I have every right to say I feel down on my blog.
And so do you.

That's idiotic - most of us don't even KNOW your d...

2009-04-27T08:29:51.661-04:00

That's idiotic - most of us don't even KNOW your damn family, and therefore, have no picture or person to attach it to. Besides - you are entitled to your opinion just as much as THEY are entitled to their shitty opinion of you. If they want, they can start their own damn blog and bitch about you. I mean, WTH? You go by Bubblewench, for craps' sake!
I'd have left the post up - but I am hard core like that.